We all know this article is dumb, or all who read here should (Warning: Mildly NSFW). I just find it interesting that the article practically has the answer to the question asked, “Why do hot girls not have boyfriends?”. written there word for word, yet can’t see it or refuses to admit it. To wit:
1. They usually get hit on by jerks
Sometimes the only guys confident enough to approach a hot girl are arrogant douchebags, so perhaps she is tired of dealing with that type of guy.
2. Everyone assumes they are taken
4. No Settling
If she is gorgeous and confident she might have very high standards and she might want to wait for the perfect guy rather than settling for whomever comes along.
5. People make assumptions
Many people feel like they will have no chance with the hot girl, so what’s the point in even trying? You never know until you go for it
There are a couple more, but you should get the point. Let’s read between the lines a bit here.
We have very attractive girls who:
- Turn a lot of guys down (“No settling”) to the point of calling several of the folks who ask them out straight out douchebags (“They usually get hit on by jerks”).
- And THEN, after that, the article gently chastises folks for “making assumptions” about hot girls.
So, hot girls are known for turning a lot of guys down, at least some of whom are called douchebags. And then they write articles like this wondering why they’re still single. Let’s, for the sake of argument, assume good motives here. So:
If they know what type of guy they want, but those guys are just not approaching them, and they’re hot enough that most guys will take them, why don’t they go up to those guys themselves and ask THEM out?
I know the sorts of girls who read these types of articles – a lot of them in fact. They’re the type of people who would laugh in the face of a good, church-going young man in college who asked them out because such a guy was a nerd. I don’t actually assume good motives here, because my conclusion wasn’t very hard to draw:
If hot girls wanted nice guys, they’d have them.
This isn’t meant to be a total indictment of hot girls. I’m also trying to make the stereotypical nice guy think: Maybe you really are a good guy, but obviously hot girls aren’t interested – if they were, you’d be going out with one. Why is that?
I have my own issues I need to deal with, so I don’t intend to sound holier-than-thou here. Reading this article just made that simple fact – hot girls could have nice guys if they really wanted them – hit home for me. It’s something to consider.