Had some technical issues putting this post up, but they should be fixed now.
Here is a post by Matt Walsh. I like Walsh. I’ve linked to him in the past. He actually has some excellent stuff out there. But he has a blind spot – a HUGE one – where it comes to marriage and sexual issues. He is what the manosphere would call blue pill. Here is a quote from a post of his:
First things first: if you’re married and you look at porn, you are cheating. Period. From a Christian perspective, this can’t be debated. Christ laid it out very clearly: if you lust after another woman, you have committed adultery. When we look at porn we are choosing to succumb to that lust; we are indulging it, fertilizing it, giving it respite in our minds. We are diving into it headfirst and soaking in it like a sponge. We are lessening ourselves, betraying our wives and participating in the violent exploitation of women (and girls). Or minds and our bodies belong to the Lord and to our wives; pornography, therefore, intrudes on their domain. If we look at porn, we are adulterers. We are adulterers in all the worst ways.
Very blue pill, right? Look at how the whole thing is aimed at men. And his biblical reasoning is very out of whack, right? Red pill men would never do something like that.
Here’s Bluepillprofessor From Dalrock’s thread “Slow your roll”*:
A frigid, sexually denying wife has violated her marriage vows just as if she has “cheated” on him. Indeed, she is “CHEATING” every single time she plays her sexual denial games. Sexual denial is adultery in every meaning of the Lord’s words. Jesus said: No divorce “excepting for marital unfaithfulness….” Denying sex is CLEARLY being unfaithful to the marital vows and Dalrock would keep this man a prisoner to HIS promises while SHE is free to fulfill HER promises. I don’t believe that is what Jesus meant.
Remember, Matt Walsh was blue pill. This guy was red pill, and they’re completely different.
*I consider this post fair game since I responded to this poster’s comment directly in the thread.